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Many businesses today operate on
a global scale, and our culturally diverse workforce is made up of
people from different countries, ethnic backgrounds, races, religion and
family structure. If you are to communicate effectively with all these
different people, it is important to keep an open mind and try to learn
as much as possible about their various cultures, and be sensitive to
them.
What is culture?
Culture is a shared system of beliefs, attitudes, values,
expectations and norms of behavior. Members of a culture often have
similar beliefs and theories on how people should behave, think and
communicate, and they all tend to act on those beliefs in much the same
way.
From group to group, cultures differ considerably. When you communicate
with someone from a different culture, you normally do so using the
theories and beliefs of your own culture. However, when your audience
receives your message, they do so based on the assumptions of their own
culture. As a result of basic cultural differences, misunderstandings
could easily occur, and often do.
How can you improve your cross-cultural communication skills?
- By recognizing cultural differences.
- By being willing to accept that other people have different
beliefs and assumptions.
- By being open-minded enough to know that not everyone has the
same standards and theories as you.
- By learning more about people from different cultures.
- By constantly making an effort to improve your inter-cultural
communication skills
Acknowledging cultural differences
If you are to communicate effectively across cultures, you must not
judge other people by your own standards. It is essential to retain an
open mind, and remember that your own cultural background is not
necessarily superior to anyone else's.
Many people assume that other people's attitudes and lives are like our
own, but this is not so. Your aim should be to try to treat people
not in the way you wish to be treated, but rather treat them the way
they want to be treated.
Ethnocentrism
Ethnocentrism is the belief that one's own cultural background is
superior to all others. This creates a barrier to effective
communication because the mind remains closed to new information.
Ethnocentric people tend to form pre-conceived judgements of different
cultures based on one experience, or based on limited evidence. Perhaps
they tend to take stereotyping a little too far and don't keep an open
mind so they cannot move beyond a certain stage. For example, when
talking to Barbra Horsky, instead of looking at her as a special human
being with unique qualities, ethnocentric people believe they are simply
talking to "an Israeli". Perhaps they believe that all Israelis are Jews
who are outspoken, demanding and aggressive, simply because of
preconceptions and limited previous experience. Therefore despite
Barbra's many unique personal qualities, the ethnocentric person cannot
see beyond their fixed ideas, even when those ideas are wrong, so their
mind remains closed.
If you want to avoid ethnocentrism, you should:
- recognize differences. Accept and acknowledge that there
are distinctions between your own cultures and those of other
people.
- avoid assumptions. Bear in mind that others may not act
in the same way as you, nor will they have the same fundamental
theories or beliefs.
- do not pre-judge. If people act differently to you, do
not automatically assume that they are wrong, that their way is
unacceptable, or that your cultures and customs are more superior to
theirs.
Checklist for communicating effectively across cultures
If you are to communicate effectively in a culturally diverse workforce,
here is a checklist of points to remember. If you follow these tips you
will be able to communicate with anyone from any culture:
- Show respect. Learn how respect is communicated in
different cultures (gestures, eye contact, symbols, signs, etc).
- Show empathy. Put yourself in the shoes of the recipient
and imagine their feelings and their point of view.
- Do not prejudge. Accept differences without judging, and
learn to listen.
- Be open-minded. Accept that you may have to change your
habits or mind-set when communicating across cultures.
- Avoid distractions. Do not be distracted by things like
appearance or dress.
- Be patient. Sometimes persistence will be necessary when
communicating with someone from a different culture.
- Look for similarities. Try to find common ground,
parallels, connections.
- Send clear messages. Make sure all your written as well
as your verbal and non-verbal communications are quite clear,
reliable and consistent.
- Recognize your prejudices. Learn to appreciate and accept
when your theories and beliefs are different from other people's.
- Treat people as individuals. Do not treat one person as
being a stereotype of a particular group, but rather as a unique
human being with individual qualities and attributes.
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